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Messages in the sand

October 29, 2015 by Brenda Leave a Comment

As I walked along the Promenade at Umhlanga, KwaZulu-Natal this morning I noticed sand-sculptures created by an entrepreneurial craftsman.  The message on one attracted my attention:  ‘Poor people progress from poverty to prosperity provided they are prepared to pay the price’.

Sand sculptures on the beach at Umhlanga, KwaZulu-Natal.

Sand sculptures on the beach at Umhlanga, KwaZulu-Natal.

This message intrigued me.  On reflection, I needed to consider it firstly from the point of view of the person who had chosen that message to display on his creation.  He himself is some-one who most probably comes from a place of poverty.  So he would have his own perspective on how lack of financial resources would impact on every aspect of his life. 

Yet he has taken constructive action in finding a way of combining his skills to create masterpieces. And he has developed his work to incorporate a distinct African flavour.  He has needed few resources as in that environment, he has no rent and the sand can be used freely.  The water he needs to dampen the sand is easily accessible.  He most probably has no formal employment so the opportunity cost is minimal.  And he has chosen to work in a system where there is a captive audience which will bring financial gains.  Locals and foreign visitors frequent the Promenade to have their daily exercise, to walk from one part of Umhlanga to another or to enjoy the seaside attractions. 

Secondly, I needed to consider or reflect on his work and his message in terms of how it applied to us, the passers-by.   I am always impressed when people take positive action to meet the challenges facing them.  Our rate of unemployment in the formal sector is unfortunately exceptionally high in South Africa.  So this man has recognised and optimised opportunities.  Many people, even if they saw possibilities may not convert them to constructive behaviour which would bring positive outcomes.  Yet, this man has done this, setting an example to others by achieving measurable outcomes.

And let’s also look at his message in terms of its interpretation.  I’ll do that in true coaching tradition by asking you, the readers to consider the following questions:

  • In which ways are you suffering from poverty? For example, you may be financially poor, time-poor or even emotionally poor.
  • In relation to your poverty, where are you now on a scale of 1 to 10 with ten representing ‘prosperity’ and your score would show where you perceive yourself to be at present.  If you are financially poor, your assets at present may be R1000 or less (poverty) and your goal R10000 (prosperity).  Thus you’d score yourself as 1.
  • What plans can you put in place in order to achieve your goal – in other words, to move you from 1 to 10?
  • How can you measure your progress?
  • What price will you pay to achieve this?

I would add that a BIG question might be:  what price are you paying for not taking action to move from poverty to prosperity?  I believe that paying a price is part of what needs to be done, but other constructive action is also necessary.  Rights and responsibility go hand-in-hand.  

While I fully appreciate and abhor the poverty in which some find themselves, I wish that more were able to come and see what a man like this has done and be inspired by his work.  He has thought outside the box and found employment that lifts him out of the realm of hopelessness in which many tend to exist.  He may not yet have moved far along his journey from poverty to prosperity, but he certainly deserves to stop paying and start enjoying his achievements.

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The sun sets in the West

September 2, 2015 by Brenda Leave a Comment

It is a great privilege to be able to experience the West Coast in South Africa especially during the ‘flower season’.  Although the magic of the natural phenomenon of the flowers bursting into bloom is a great attraction, there is so much else to appreciate.  For example, being the West Coast, the sun sets over the sea and the sunsets are magnificent.  

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As I stood on the beach marvelling at the great beauty of the sunset near Lamberts Bay, I was intrigued by the sound that my shoes were making on the sand.  I looked down and was surprised that I wasn’t standing on sand… there was a layer of shells. 

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Often we may be engrossed using one of our senses in capturing an experience.  However, if we consciously use other senses at the same time, we can expand and include different dimensions to this overall experience.  In the above example, I was using sight to focus on the beauty of the changing light during sunset.   It was almost dark and it was my sense of hearing that alerted me to the fact that I wasn’t treading on sand which is what I’d expect on a South African beach.  The thick layer of shells fascinated me and raised many questions in my mind regarding the reasons for this volume being washed up on the beach.  I still don’t know the answer – do you?

So here we are considering different perspectives.  The sun rises in the east and sets in the west.  So where I come from, KwaZulu-Natal I’m accustomed to watching the sun rise over the sea.  Watching the sun set over the sea provides a shift in focus.  Another change in concentration in my example above was looking out to sea, a horizontal view.  Looking down towards my feet meant a vertical shift.  I also changed from using predominantly sight to capture the experience of sunset, to noticing sound and therefor shifting my view to the shells.  What are you doing to shift your perspective?

We were privileged to see the flowers at their very best this year.  Yet, another focus of reflection is the context within which visitors are able to experience this wonderful natural phenomenon. We were able to enjoy the wonderful hospitality of the local people who are passionate about their surroundings.  And this created the framework in which we were able to experience the magnificence of the natural phenomenon like the flowers, sunsets and beautiful scenery.  

These are amongst my ‘touchstones’ which I define as those experiences, sights, sounds, smells, tastes and feelings which bring out the best in me and make me feel ‘whole’.  I consciously try to incorporate these into my life wherever possible.  I encourage my clients to do the same – to identify and then incorporate their touchstones into their lives whenever possible.  

My questions for you are:

  1. How can you train yourself to take in more aspects of an experience by using various senses?
  2. By changing your perspective, what else might change?
  3. What are you doing to shift so that you can see things from different perspectives?
  4. How can this help you to become more curious?
  5. What are your touchstones?
  6. How can you incorporate more of these into your life?
  7. How else can you broaden the range of possibilities in your life?
  8. By paying more attention to the framework that is making your experience possible, how can you see aspects of your life in context?
  9. As a result of reading this article (experience), and answering these questions, what other reflections do you have?
  10. In one sentence, please crystallise the meaning you have gained from your reflections.
  11. As a result of this, what action are you going to take?

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