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The parts of the whole

September 7, 2015 by Brenda Leave a Comment

As we entered the West Coast National Park in South Africa, hoping to see the natural phenomenon of the wild flowers in August, at first we might have felt disappointed. There were no flowers to be seen from the car.

West Coast National Park.

West Coast National Park.

However, as we travelled further into the Park, a feast of magical sights ensued. These varied from barren land, to wild sea views, beaches and sand-dunes forming a backdrop to magnificent carpets of various coloured flowers. At times these tapestries were predominantly orange and at others, blue or white.

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As we came closer to the fields of flowers there were areas where we were permitted to leave the car and could walk amongst the flowers. Looking closely at small areas we could marvel at the variety of flowers in bloom. In the picture below you can see five different flowers. And just look at the detail in each flower and leaf!

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My invitation is for you to consider the distinction between seeing the beauty of flowers from a distance and getting up close so you can actively engage with the flowers. These are two different approaches to admiring the wild flowers in the Western Cape. And both are wonderful ways to experience this miracle that occurs each year. In the first we marvel at the tapestry which nature has woven. In the second, we appreciate the intricate details of the plants and flowers weaving our picture.

I believe this is a metaphor which we can use in so many areas of our lives. In certain cases we complacently or lazily notice only the big picture. In others we may curiously examine the parts and their interconnectedness. Perhaps we should always be conscious that we are doing one or the other? And then we can make choices. It can add greater variety to our perspectives on many aspects and issues we face. Try it! You might be surprised at how you always view things in the same way. Experimenting could add greater meaning.

My questions for you are:

  • As you journey along life’s journey, what signs are you seeing along the way?
  • Just ‘going the extra mile’ how different might your view be?
  • If you shift your emphasis from the whole, the ‘big picture’, how might you appreciate the parts?
  • How often are you getting in touch with nature?
  • What journeys do you need to make?

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The Door of This Home

January 8, 2015 by Brenda Leave a Comment

May the door of this home be wide enough
to receive all who hunger for love,
all who are lonely for friendship. 

May it welcome all who have cares to unburden,
thanks to express, hopes to nurture. 

May the door of this house be narrow enough
to shut out pettiness and pride, envy and enmity. 

May its threshold be no stumbling block
to young and strained feet. 

May it be too high to admit to complacency,
selfishness and harshness. 

May this home be for all who enter, 
the doorway to richness and a more meaningful life.

The Siddur of Shir Chadash

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In addition to viewing this writing literally as a blessing for your home, my invitation is to use this as a metaphor for other areas of your life.  

For example, Virginia Carlson says: 

‘This writing is offered to encourage you to experience nature with an open mind.  Being out in nature, in a sense for some, is like being welcomed home.  It is a place where all burdens can be temporarily set down upon the ground or blown away in the wind.  The distractions of animals ease your mind into calm.  Other aspects of nature such as snow, flowers, little buds on bushes or leafing trees stir a sense of rebirth within your spirit.  Breathing in the crisp air, you can feel refurbished while your body physically stretches itself with rekindled energy.’ 

Those of us who are integral coaches could use this effectively as a distinction for our clients – and for ourselves!  This would help amplify the journey from current to future narrative.  I’d be interested to know what opportunities this might have opened for you, how this writing and its use as a metaphor might have enabled you to see something differently. 

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My view, your view

April 23, 2014 by Brenda Leave a Comment

As I arrive home, driving up the road where we live, I’m surrounded by beauty.   We are fortunate to live in an area where nature reflects each season’s changing colours magnificently.  And I often stop my car to look at my surroundings through the lens of a camera. 

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My questions for you are: 

  1. How often do you stop to really admire the view?
  2. And what do you see when you look:
    1. Up?
    2. Down?
    3. East?
    4. West?
    5. North?
    6. South?
  • When I ask this question, often people aren’t sure where North and South are in relation to them.
  1. And how different does the view look when you look through the camera lens, tilting the view in different directions?

Often we look at the world in a certain, fixed way.  Try experimenting, consciously considering different angles. Take time.   You might be surprised by what you do see!

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