Each of us is a gift to the world.  At first it is only the outside wrapping that the recipients see.  Yet, often the ‘authentic self’ lies deeply hidden beneath layers of protective wrapping, containers and other necessities that will help the gift to remain intact.  Sometimes the numbers of layers can be part of the ‘game of life’.  At children’s parties, there are often shrieks of glee as the game of ‘pass the parcel’ ‘hots up’ and we wait to see where the present ‘lands’ and who will be the next person to rip off another layer.  Usually it is only at the end that we discover the content. 

Wrapping impacts on many aspects of our lives and the way we present ourselves and our products is important.  Just as we might give a Kruger coin to some-one in recognition of an achievement, we might give the same gift on the birth of a baby.  However, in most cases we’d wrap the gift differently so that it is appropriate to the occasion and best suits the recipient. This concept applies directly to our personal branding and also to our corporate branding.  These two need to be congruent in order to build trust. 

Let me tell you a story to illustrate my point: There has been a slight shift in my life and I’m excited to now be certified as an integral coach.  Recognising an opportunity to combine my love of ‘coaching’ and of ‘speaking’ I have just developed a new keynote, ‘What you say matters’.  On Thursday April 12 I presented this talk for the first time in Sydney, Australia and today, Wednesday April 18 it will be launched in Pietermaritzburg, South Africa.  But these are very different organisations and the audiences have diverse needs.  How can my keynote best solve a challenge in their lives?  The content is virtually the same.  But how do we attract people there so that they can hear the message?  The key is in the wrapping. 

So, as an example, click here (The Wrapping) to see the two different adverts – one for the City Business SWAP group (emphasis on professional selling) and the other for the Leadership Forum of the Chamber of Business which attracts mainly organisations, corporates and educators. 

My questions for you are:

  • What are you doing to ensure that your personal brand is a true reflection of yourself and not a veneer?
  • How congruent are your personal branding and corporate branding?
  • Is the ‘wrapping’ appropriate for the intended recipients?

Wouldn’t it be wonderful to be more confident in showing your ‘personal brand’?  What is holding you back?  For help in developing your ‘personal brand’ (group training or individual coaching) or to book this keynote please contact me – Phone: +27 33 3425432, Mobile: + 27 82 4993311, brenda@strategy-leadership.com

 

As an Integral Coach I find that many clients benefit enormously by improving their flexibility. Building their physical competence helps to enhance their agility in other areas of their lives. Through commitment to an individualised programme they can turn ‘stumbling blocks’ into ‘stepping stones’.

Background

Let me give you some background to my interest in flexibility:

My appreciation of Ken Blanchard’s work was heightened when I met him personally. He invited me and my husband to attend a workshop as his guests in Johannesburg. He used sandcastles as a metaphor in considering our need to be ‘fast and flexible’. In his story he elaborates that while the builders were not observant, those sandcastles built at the water’s edge were washed away by the recurring incoming tide. Those built higher on the beach were destroyed by an ‘ad hoc’ storm.

The message, according to Ken Blanchard, is that we should remain ‘fast and flexible’ in order to move away from threats and towards opportunities. And this applies in both our business and private lives. Other authors refer to ‘agility’ as being one of the hallmarks of success. This also implies that we need to be flexible and take appropriate action.

Specific example

I recently experienced a fascinating example of flexibility where high levels of customer service were maintained despite the need to adapt to changing circumstances. In March 2012 we were privileged to visit Botswana ‘on safari’. I highly recommend ‘&Beyond’s’ ‘Chobe-under-canvas’.  Robson Chongwe, Camp Manager and his team of 9 men (no women!) do an excellent job in looking after a maximum of 10 guests accommodated in 5 tents. They quietly provide outstanding service with apparent ease, overcoming many hidden obstacles.

Robson Chongwe, Camp Manager, ‘Chobe-under-Canvas’. In the background, our ‘bedrooms’ can be seen.

 

From a management perspective there are many challenges. For example, to meet government requirements, in the Chobe National Park, the camp may not stay on the same site for more than 5 days. Moving involves ‘breaking up’ the camp, packing up everything, transporting to the new site, offloading and setting up again. (Coaches, isn’t that a wonderful ‘distinction’?). ‘Everything’ includes many tents – guest, staff, kitchen, ‘diningroom’ – and all the contents, equipment and supplies etc. Even the water-tank and individual toilets in each tent’s ‘bathroom’ are portable. To give you an idea of the complexity of this operation, each of the guest and staff tents has to be erected in a way that makes it safe from animals and mosquitoes. And each tent has its own canvas floor. Yet there are ‘normal’ beds with luxury bedding.

On the day of the move, the current site must be vacated by 10am. This interferes with their customary schedules for the game-drives and other activities. To maintain maximum occupancy, bookings are planned so that guests depart that day. So, it means that the team schedule includes making sure the guests are packed and ready to leave before 9am, regardless of what time their flights depart. Robson says ‘this is sometimes disturbing to the guests’ as their flights may be leaving only that evening. So, I guess they have very long game drives that day!

The camp has to be set up and functioning at the new location before the arrival of the new guests the following day. So, within that structure, the team-members have to be very flexible in many aspects. They have to cope with ‘not knowing’. In addition to structural and functional demands, they need to meet environmental changes. Variables include the weather and the animals’ behaviour response to it. And then there are seasonal differences, too.

Robson Chongwe and his team.

 

How do guests need to adapt and be flexible?

The team also needs to meet guest’s expectations as far as possible. For example, on the game drives, which because of the Park rules cannot take place before 6am or after 7pm, the guides need to show as many animals and birds as possible. Yet there needs to be a balance between viewing time and ‘down’ time. I just loved sitting in the ‘dining room’ and writing this article!

Let’s look at some of the factors that require a certain amount of flexibility in order for the guests to get the maximum benefit from this ‘African Adventure’. They have expectations of a high level of comfort, safety and food. Yet the prime reason they are there is to experience the flora, fauna and the experience.

Some of the many areas we had to be flexible:

Time schedule – the mealtimes need to fit in with game-drives and seeing the animals to maximum advantage. Cereal and coffee were served before the game drive which started at 6am. Brunch took place at 11am (after the return from the game drive).

Showering – warm water is provided only at 7pm. So, if you would like a warm shower, that is when you shower! A bowl of warm water was provided for washing ‘hands and face’ at that time (one of the team comes to the back flap of your tent and delivers it to you) and also at 5:30am.

Safety – after dark, it is not safe for guests to walk even from the ‘dining tent’ or fire to their tents without a guard. So, once you are in your tent, you stay there for the night, unless there is an emergency. This normally isn’t a problem, but one evening I realised I had dropped my glasses and couldn’t go outside to find them.

Exercise is limited as there are no fences and guests can’t go for walks or runs.

Charging of mobiles, camera batteries etc. can take place only at 7 pm when a vehicle returns and its battery is fully charged. And then guests take it in turn to recharge their items before retiring for the night.

How does flexibility affect us in general?

The metaphor of the ‘moving tents’ reminds me of how we need to constantly ‘reinvent’ our businesses and ourselves. Improving our ability to adapt without compromising our true selves can help us reach potential. How agile are you?

My questions for you:

  1. How flexible area you in functioning within different environments from both a business and personal perspective?
  2. With whom do you need to be more flexible?
  3. When do you find that your habits are holding you back?
  4. Where do you physically feel your lack of agility?
  5. What can you do to improve your flexibility?

How do we help clients to become more flexible?

If you’d like to turn your ‘stumbling blocks’ into ‘stepping stones’ please consider engaging an Integral Coach. I coach ‘in person’ and have also become more agile in meeting client’s needs through coaching some sessions via Skype or telephone.

For more information on Integral Coaching please contact me – Phone: +27 33 3425432, Mobile: + 27 82 4993311, brenda@strategy-leadership.com.

 

Life is full of stories.  Some we tell in words – and sometimes pictures speak to us.  Here is the chronicle of a week of my life, seen through the filter of ‘sunrise’. 

Sunday:  this week began in Cape Town where I love watching the light change as the sun rises behind the Waterfront.

 

Wednesday:  at home in Pietermaritzburg, the view from my window excites me as each new day dawns.

 

Saturday:  the week ended in the KZN Midlands at Hartford House, award winning country hotel, a ‘world-class hotel on a world-class stud farm’.  We were the guests of Mick and Cheryl Goss and this was a truly memorable experience.  The mist hung over the dam next to our cottage and sunrise enriched the mystery of the new day. 

 

So, what does this story tell us?  On reflection, it tells me that I need to include those sights, sounds and other experiences that truly make me feel ‘alive’.  ‘Sunrise’ is one of my ‘touchstones’ and I try to incorporate every day where possible. 

What are your ‘touchstones’?  Think about it carefully.  List those experiences that make you feel your best.  What are they?  And then try to include these in as many different aspects of your life as possible.

Let me give you an example:  one of my coaching clients loves the sound of natural moving water.  The sea, waterfalls and streams are ‘touchstones’ for her.  When I visited her at work, I asked her how she was incorporating these elements in her business life.  Through our conversation she realised that she wasn’t doing enough.  There was a beautiful stream at the end of the business property and her practice was to begin taking her lunch and enjoying it next to the stream.  She loved these daily trips and felt that this was good for her soul!

So, think again.  What are some of those experiences that make you feel really good?  You can bring them into your life even in the form of photos – just as I have done in the ‘chronicle’ above.  The same applies with people.   I took a photo of my coaching course leaders who are outstanding role models.  I’m placing that in my office and whenever I’m not certain how I should handle a situation, my question to myself is:  ‘what questions would Craig and Janine ask me right now?’.  My answers help me to be in touch with my reality.

Let me ask you again:  Who are those people who inspire you, help you to grow?  How can you incorporate them in your life even more?  

Identify the people who have a positive impact on your life.  Be more aware of those sights, smells, sounds and feelings that bring out the best in you.  Carefully consider how you can include in your ‘story’ and you will benefit. 

 

As an integral coach I ‘practise’ the self-observations (to gather data), engage in daily practices, reflections and do ‘one off’ exercises appropriate to my own self-developmental path.  Today when I was reflecting and applying our coaching models to myself I noticed something very interesting.  In looking at the four most recent ‘posts’, which I wrote spontaneously over a period of a month, I had by chance (really?) covered four domains.  My coaching colleagues will understand the significance of this but there are interesting learning points for everyone. 

Let me explain:  the articles were written in the following order:

January 31       Isn’t it strange?

This first article covers my passion (D1) for a poem which reflects our lives.  Robert Sharpe wrote that poem over 200 years ago and it is as applicable today as it was then. 

February 7        ‘Stepping stones’

The second article looks at action (D2) that was taken to overcome a ‘stumbling block’ (grass would not grow).  And this has created a ‘stepping stone’ which has opened up many possibilities and is a source of great joy.

February 14      Customer service:  turning ‘stumbling blocks’ into ‘stepping stones’

The third post looks at how building positive relationships (D3) can escalate service to levels to excellence.  When things go wrong (‘stumbling block’) and we are able to find a ‘stepping stone’, this builds future possibilities and action.

February 21      Turning ‘stumbling blocks’ into ‘stepping stones’:  QR codes

I am not technologically (D4) astute but am motivated and assisted by my son, Gary Eckstein, SEO consultant.  With their help I am enjoying and engaged in my website, blogs and other IT aspects of my business. 

So, by chance, the above four articles build a balanced package.  What is this telling us?  It shows that whatever happens in one ‘domain’ of our lives is likely to show up in all four domains. This is how we as ‘integral coaches’ help our clients to ‘unblock’ issues (‘stumbling blocks’)  that are holding them back.   I’m so excited to discover that even where I’m spontaneously writing articles, these topics are showing up in all four domains.

If you’d like to know more about ‘integral coaching’, which can be done in person or via Skype, you are welcome to contact me – Phone:  +27 33 3425432, Mobile:  + 27 82 4993311, brenda@strategy-leadership.com,

Warm wishes,

Brenda

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